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Argentina-traversing South African Tablighi Jamaatis

May 18th, 2007, 11:58 pm

We’re all guilty of stereotyping.

Shortly after finishing jummah today at the ginormous masjid in Buenos Aires, I saw a bunch of unfamiliar, desi-looking bearded men dressed in thobes, but I didn’t think about stopping by to talk to them since they looked busy conversing with one another. However, an Argentine sister wanted to know where they were from, so I decided to say salaam and introduce myself. I found out they were from the Johannesburg, South Africa area and had been in Argentina for a few months, traveling from city to city, province to province to spread the message of Islam. It also turned out that they were fourth-generation South African Indians. Fascinating. They spoke English in some sort of pseudo-British accent which I barely understand at times. What was even cooler was that they had all been to Bangladesh.

When they told me they were members of Tablighi Jamaat, I was a bit intimidated. I heard that Tablighis were like a mix of Evangelical Christians and Mormon missionaries who travel and go door to door telling Muslims to convert to their brand of Islam, so I thought they were trying to recruit me or something. I mean, they don’t promote violence or anything, but the thought of Evangelical Muslims is a bit scary. Plus, their huge beards were intimidating as well. It’s weird how, as a well-educated, open-minded Muslim, I automatically assume that beardacious Muslim men are out there to judge and criticize others while thinking that only they have the keys to Paradise. Obviously, this isn’t always true.

At the end of the conversation, they asked me for my number and said that we should hang out sometime soon before they leave for South Africa in a week. I was like “Sure…” and said that we should meet up sometime during the weekdays. I headed out to have lunch with some friends, and then I realized I missed a great opportunity to have something interesting to blog about. And I felt a little guilty for having preconceived notions about them simply because they belonged a group I didn’t know much about. So I went back to the masjid to pray asr and found them there.

We took a cab to Recoleta, one of the ritzier Buenos Aires neighborhoods, to the offices of an airline so that they could make some changes to their tickets. (On a side note, the armed security guards that greeted us as we entered the building happened to be there a few minutes later. Coincidence? I think not.) Afterwards, I tried to help them find a currency exchange place, but we couldn’t find one that was open and had a good exchange rate from dollars to pesos. During this entire time, we talked about our families, our lives back home, and the importance of following Islam to lead a moral existence. Despite living different lives in entirely different countries, our love for Islam brought us together. Alhamdulillah.

What’s the moral of the story, kids? Never judge a man by his beard.

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Comments

2007-05-19 01:09:50
Amber is Amber

racy.

2007-05-19 15:30:26
Mahdi

very.

2007-05-19 22:38:15
Sarah

my choto mama actually does tabligh and yea, he has a beard. but he’s pretty easy going (to a point :P) but as you said, don’t judge a man by his beard. but it’s really cool how you met these people…expanding your horizon and whatnot lol :P

2007-05-20 12:17:23
The Jolly Bengali

I should’ve clarified the beard thing. I meant huge, unkempt beards, not stylish, trimmed ones.

2007-05-20 15:32:15
Radiant Light

Salaam;
I kinda used to have this pre-conceived notion about tablighees also, Funny cos I was born into a family full of em, I used to think them old school, and boring.
UNTIL I took the time out to actually associate with them, and found em pretty “human” :P
Alhumdulillah though, never judge a person by the beard :D

2007-05-21 09:29:22
fastaqim.blogspot.com

an Imam in another country called me and my brother wahabbis because we had beards and we were wearing long shorts. the beards were pretty small then.

2007-05-22 01:42:18
sajda

i don’t know if it’s an after-effect of all the hullaballoo in the media but i find myself falling for that “judge a man by his beard” thing too…but one shake of my hijab (a stylish, trim one)and i quickly regain my bearings. Thanks for the reminder - “never judge a man by his beard”- lol.

2007-05-22 13:00:09
The Jolly Bengali

Isn’t it odd how the media is making us even more suspicious of our own kind? We’re constantly fed with images of bearded fundamentalists that we stereotype Muslim men sporting facial hair as stubborn and judgemental.

2007-06-13 07:45:12
bilal

hehe,
I am a Muslim from Johannesburg. I am also very familiar with the tablighi jamaat- even join them on missions at times!
Anyways, interesting to read about this. They probably don’t use the internet or read blogs (I know- gross generalisation!) but I will try to find them and direct them to your blog…
*Slmz from South Africa*

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